23 Dirty Talk Phrases To Use In Bed, According to Sex Therapists
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It’s the underlying deep sense of permission that sub-communicates, “I am a sexual person and that is 100%, completely allowed” that is so attractive. Just like how most women want to feel their man confidently lead, ravish, and direct during sex, most men also want to feel a certain energy from you. I don’t mean playing the Dominant polarity (unless that’s what the two of you are into).
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In this post, we’re breaking down a list of dirty things to say to your partner when you’re feeling extra naughty. When you’re out with your girls, getting ready to head home to your sweetheart, send him a text message that reads, “I’m on my way home and I can’t wait to touch you all over when I get there. Dirty talk doesn’t have to be an elaborate production. Begin with simple phrases like “You’re so sexy.” You can gradually introduce more explicit language as you gain confidence and figure out what you like. While you masturbate, try saying your naughty thoughts aloud.
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I’m about to break down the deeper mechanics of what turns him on, and give you some examples of it in action, so you can start pressing his buttons, and even improvise your own saucy lines on the spot. Especially for those that enjoy consensually degrading verbal play, aftercare is an essential piece of sex to keep the consent, communication, and boundaries in line for all. Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT, recommends using your senses to describe what you’re feeling, seeing, smelling, tasting, and hearing. Here are some of Wright’s suggestions for what to say.
- Some people want their dirty talk to include very clinical descriptions of their genitals (penis, vagina) while others want the dirtier street slang (cock, pussy, dick, cunt, etc.).
- Sure, if that’s the kind of verbal hanky-panky you and your partner have agreed on.
- If you do this right, he’ll be thinking naughty thoughts about you all day long, even when he’s getting money from the ATM or sitting at a red light in traffic.
- This initial chat is also a great opportunity to talk about your turn-ons, turn-offs and boundaries around dirty talk.
- Kris Gowen, PhD, a sexuality educator, researcher, and co-host of the podcast B4U Swipe.
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Think, “Your tits are perfect, I want to ____ them,” or “You look so hot when you ____.” Dirty talk doesn’t need to be exclusively crass; it can be affectionate too. Dirty talking is a great way to build sexual tension between you and your partner. Of course, you need to test these phrases out and see how your partner reacts. If she’s into it, she’ll play along, but pay attention to the signs when she’s uncomfortable. Just like allowing the physical parts of sex to progress slowly, you probably don’t want to go zero to 100 with your dirty talk either.
Dirty talk phrases like this, he notes, are great ways to begin role-playing or exploring the concept of control. “Someone who is high-powered in their day-to-day lives, for example, might get excited when their partner uses dirty talk to assert dominance or vice versa,” he says. Just be sure to be safe, be respectful, and listen carefully.
Of course, the reaction we hope for when we start talking dirty to a partner is shock and delight. But while some couples love the idea of it, others may struggle with stepping outside their comfort zone. Make sure you communicate how you feel about it while in a safe space emotionally with your significant other. Some of the best dirty talking examples for you to use with your partner, both for males and females alike.